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Mindfucker
Date: 10/21/2014, Categories: Fiction, BDSM, Cheating, Discipline, Female Domination, Hardcore, Author: Alpha_Male_NY, Rating: 50, Source: sexstories.com
people are assertive, in the center; because the center (that is, being in control) is not fun and it takes practice and it isn't fun; most crave the rush of being the one who inflict the pain, and those who enjoy receiving it may deny it, causing themselves more pain in the process. When a submissive person admits their nature, this inner struggle cedes to exist and that resistance which once caused pain is now a source of pleasure. Acceptance makes things easier, and so if you're the one who suffers in relationships or, as they might call it, "the one who loves more", then you're being passive, feminine, and it's okay to be so. In nature, most animals are passive, very few truly aggressive; otherwise, there would be too much conflict and harmony is what nature intended. Let the macho-types kill one another off, the most adaptive organisms aren't the strongest, just the ones that happen to survive. And I've seen the same in my human experience, women tend to be passive, love being led by a dominant male, but wouldn't dream of admitting it out loud. What they say and they do are at odds, because they're ruled by raw emotion and aren't really in control once these are ignited in them. You can become an emotional master puppeteer, if you learn to pull the right strings in them. And I'm not speaking vaguely, for you to go figure it out; the way you get people to do what you want is by subconsciously hitting them where it hurts most. In women, it usually revolves around their ...