1. Mindfuckers and the fucked: choose your side


    Date: 10/21/2014, Categories: Fiction, Author: Alpha_Male_NY, Rating: 0, Source: sexstories.com

    people are assertive, in the center; because the center (that is, being in control) is not fun and it takes practice and it isn't fun; most crave the rush of being the one who inflict the pain, and those who enjoy receiving it may deny it, causing themselves more pain in the process. When a submissive person admits their nature, this inner struggle cedes to exist and that resistance which once caused pain is now a source of pleasure. Acceptance makes things easier, and so if you're the one who suffers in relationships or, as they might call it, "the one who loves more", then you're being passive, feminine, and it's okay to be so. In nature, most animals are passive, very few truly aggressive; otherwise, there would be too much conflict and harmony is what nature intended. Let the macho-types kill one another off, the most adaptive organisms aren't the strongest, just the ones that happen to survive. And I've seen the same in my human experience, women tend to be passive, love being led by a dominant male, but wouldn't dream of admitting it out loud. What they say and they do are at odds, because they're ruled by raw emotion and aren't really in control once these are ignited in them. You can become an emotional master puppeteer, if you learn to pull the right strings in them. And I'm not speaking vaguely, for you to go figure it out; the way you get people to do what you want is by subconsciously hitting them where it hurts most. In women, it usually revolves around their ...
    vanity. See, to them is a matter of survival to be able to attract males, therefore their world is upside down whenever one of these potential partners refuses her. She goes on the offensive, that's just an example of a "string" you can pull. It may sound manipulative but everyone's doing it as we speak, they get you to do things suggestively, some may do so bluntly, everyone everywhere is either pulling strings or having theirs pulled. Nothing "macho" about it. Women tend be the puppeteer masters, having supreme male specimen prototypes do their bidding. "If you love, you'd do it" and it still works like a charm. Except they don't feel attraction for the male who can be easily persuaded. You may be strong enough to stand up for her but you'll never be strong enough in her eyes unless you stand up to her. And again, the way to go about isn't engaging in arguments. The minute you get caught into an argument, you're done. Be the one who is in control by remaining to be so, don't lose your cool, do so firmly. Be strong enough to take her on without letting her bitchiness throw off your game. Because when that happens, you lost. Don't let anger seduce you and don't keep it bottled up either. Express it the way a man only should: be straightforward and unemotional. But have a firm tenderness, too; after all, you're dealing with big children, as Schopenhauer once said of the fair sex. And they love being treated like children. By the way, it isn't abuse I speak of. Our children, if we ...
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