1. Chastity cock cage play for an average couple


    Date: 10/5/2015, Categories: Fetish, Taboo, Author: pained_expression, Rating: , Source: xHamster

    being in a cock cage as a way for her to get used to delving as deeply into her joy without the idea of having to reciprocate. The second it the idea of my cock being on call for her when she wants it... or if she does not want it she has a key hidden in the house and can phone me from work on my day off so I can masturbate on my own and be locked back up when she gets home and she does not have to think of me on our day off. We also covered the two areas we did not seek to go. We did not want my cock being caged to be about power over me. She could not hold my cock captive for chores or behaviour. She could hold my cock in chastity longer if she thought it would be a turn on to do so. It was vital for her that it was only about sexual fun. The other part for her was that it was not long term chastity. I have thrown out that I would like to go two weeks locked up when we have a block of time to ourselves just to get used to the guilt she naturally has not pleasing me when she feels pleasure. It is just one week into our play since the cage arrived last week, but right now we have a rough base to start from. Thursday and Sunday are the two days of the week I will get released, unless she lets me free to deal with myself on Saturday. Those are the ...
    two days for some deep scrubbing and cleaning at minimum. It is up to her what happens sexually. The one request I made is that she does not just give me the key, but removes the cage herself. For me it makes a big difference that she is an active part of it, not just throwing me the key. In the very short experience so far I am surprised how much more built up my arousal is after a few days locked up. Some days are a breeze and I don't think about it while other times can become very frustrating. To go one step further on the word frustrating. There is a strange spiraling effect that I have already run into. It was not just a little frustration, it was a cycle of frustration that was self looping. I have two experiences with a similar feeling: traveling in India with incredible heat and humidity, and SCUBA diving. In both cases there is that uncomfortable inescapable situation that you simply have to endure by staying as calm as you can. Mostly I wanted to write this to get down my experience so far and to hopefully get across to someone some day, that chastity does not have to be a part of BDSM. I think there can be a thousand unique places two creative people can find to use one if there was less stigma attached to it being an extreme fetish act.
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