1. Sharing Wives


    Date: 9/29/2015, Categories: Wife Lovers, Author: rondawes, Rating: 4, Source: LushStories

    After twelve years, there was no denying that Rob and Julie’s marriage needed help. One of Julie’s friends recommended a marriage counselor that she had used, and they set up the first meeting. Pam, the counselor, listened as they described their issues, occasionally asking questions. At the end of the meeting, she recommended that each of them come to her individually once, then they would meet together again. In his meeting, Rob explained that when they were first married, sex was spontaneous and frequent, and that Julie seemed to have cooled to him over time. He had introduced sex toys into their relationship, and she used to have orgasms almost every time they had sex. Now she seemed to have lost interest. She let him have her once or twice a week, but it was uninspired. He longed to have his old, responsive wife back. He felt that at 37, she was too young to be slowing down. At Julie’s meeting, she explained that it seemed that when they were dating, they used to spend a lot of time talking. Now it seemed that Rob only talked to her when he wanted sex. She wanted him to spend time with her, even when sex wasn’t the goal. Even on those occasions when they did talk, it was always about the kids, never about them. “Do you still enjoy sex?” Pam asked. “Yeah, I guess so.” “You guess so? Do you have orgasms when you have sex?” “Not often.” “Did you used to, earlier in your marriage?” “Yes.” “What do you think has changed?” “It just takes me longer to get aroused than it does ...
    for Rob. By the time he’s finished, I’ve barely begun.” “What happens when he’s finished. Does he roll over and ignore you?” “No, he’s happy to hold me and caress me until I’m finished, but it’s just not the same. It feels like he’s waiting on me. Kind of like eating with someone who eats quickly. It’s a little uncomfortable for me to finish eating when I feel that they’re having to sit there to wait on me.” The couple drove silently to their joint meeting with Pam, lost in their own thoughts. They each felt sure that Pam would see things their way, and suggest changes in their spouse’s behavior. “Well, I have some good news for you two,” Pam said, after they had exchanged greetings and sat. “Your marriage is still strong, and you love each other. The fact that you’re here indicates you think it’s worth saving. One of the questions that I always ask to find out how strong the relationship is, is when I asked you what attracted you to each other. If there’s any difficulty remembering, I know there’s problems. But when I asked you two those questions, I could see the joy in your face as you remembered. That’s a very good sign. "The problems you describe are not uncommon at all. Women are just wired differently than men. When it comes to sex, men are like microwave ovens, and women are like crock pots. The issues that you each pointed out in your individual sessions are listed on this pad of paper. Now, the question is, how do you two address those issues?” Pam handed them the ...
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