1. MY OLDER MAN by Jonjmaxx


    Date: 7/21/2015, Categories: Gay Male, Mature, Author: papadomi, Rating: 100, Source: xHamster

    Last fall, when I was starting my graduate studies at NYU film school, I found myself sexually frustrated and unhappy with the guys I was meeting. The sex was OK, but nothing really special. I think that's kind of understandable because, after all, we were mostly all in our early 20s and not very experienced. Plus, if I was to be really honest, the guys I met (and I include myself here) were kind of immature and unworldly. We barely knew who we were, let alone capable of thoughtful, meaningful and satisfying sexual relationships. I guess that's why I have always found myself sexually drawn to older men. I had never been with someone more than a few years older than me. But older guys seemed attractive to me. I'm not sure why, but I was really curious about what it would be like to be with an older man. I don't mean ancient, of course, but I think there is something incredibly magnetic about a mature handsome man who is in his 50s. A guy of that age would be down to earth, mature and sexually knowledgeable, right? They would have so much experience, would know who they are, and would be beyond the petty insecurities that young guys like me are all so much about. I mean, really, so many of guys my age don't seem to know who they are. They don't know what real intimacy is all about and, fuck, they can't even have a conversation. And really, let's admit it, sex lasts about 10 minutes. There must be something better out there. I was about to leave New York for a semester abroad ...
    at a London film school, but wanted to work through this confusion. I knew I was curious about older men, so I decided to explore maybe finding someone like that I could talk to and maybe go from there. And I wanted to do this before I went to London because, maybe, I would have the confidence to explore older guys there, too. From the safety of my phone, I changed the age setting in my Manhunt membership so that I would only see profiles of guys over 50. Usually, I had excluded guys that old, thinking they were trolls. Previously, older guys on Manhunt would chat me up which would kinda freak me out. I would block them and be rid of them. But now, I purposely restricted my search so that I would only see older men. Maybe there was someone cool and mature worth talking to. I had nothing to lose. Besides, if it got strange I could block them and close the app. And if nothing happened or even if something disastrous occurred, I would scurry off to London and get away. Manhunt works pretty well for searching--well, hunting!--because it lets you set a lot of search preferences to zero in on exactly what you're looking for. I set the target age between 50 and 60. Now don't get me wrong—I don't necessarily think that anyone over 60 is too old, but I kind of had in mind someone a tad younger than that. I set body preference to be average or better. I didn't set any specific ethnicity--hey, I'm open to all types. As for sexual preference, I chose top. I wanted to find a true and total ...
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